BELIEVE

It can often be hard to believe in yourself, especially if you feel like you have nothing to offer or are unworthy of things. But you are worthy and you are capable. If you're having trouble seeing all the amazing things about you, Sometimes we feel like giving up because failure is a possibility, but it’s perfectly natural to struggle with something the first time you do it.  Setting realistic goals will help you to believe in yourself and your ability to accomplish things Instead of blaming yourself for doing something wrong, give yourself permission to experiment without worrying about the consequences............The unspoken thought that drives these questions is, “I don’t believe these ideas will work for me.” Or, stated another way, “I don’t believe I can make these ideas work. I don’t believe in myself.”
never ever loose your  hopes ....................  

                          FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS 

   

 '' LET MONEY FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS , : DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS FOLLOW MONEY''  

In pushing out of your comfort zone, you open yourself up to new experiences and new people When we push ourselves into unfamiliar territory we tend to learn the most about ourselves. We learn that we are stronger and infinitely more capable than we ever imagined and when we get this memo it can fill us with an unshakeable confidence.We all remember the dreams we had as children, but far too often these dreams fade into the background as we mature and the realities of life take over. Oftentimes these dreams can seem outlandish in the harsh light of day, but it’s important to know that these dreams are simply the kernels of our desire. A spark, an idea. My life was turned upside down. I knew that I had to turn it around. I just didn’t know how to but so far  i have decided what my interest is in , accordingly i started collecting material so far concerned with my  dreams .... i have learned with few things in life  that if we are tend to learn things in our life nothing is there which can stop us .....................

 be a inspiration for others “If one reads enough books one has a fighting chance. but the one who thinks logically is the who is the most successful ........................... just follow your dreams and don't ever distract your mind ...........

 

                GET THE LIFE YOU WANT .....................................LET YOUR PAST GO

We have an ability to tilt the scale mentally on the good decision  and  bad decision of our life , one should always be practical in his/ her life , if you want your life peaceful and positive then yes we should surely stay alone or else with good people.  Remember good people always gives you the best in your life , the decisions of our life should be taken wisely  , sometimes it eventually happens that ,there comes people in our life who are not reliable but then also we love to stay with them, just because of there fake concerns , the memories they give us in our life are the ones which we never want to let go because  of those emotional stuff , but the reason we donot want to give up those memories is because,  if we gave ourself  amensia from ever having known somebody we loved , we would miss out on all  the good times . In fact , that is what happening with everyone in life ................

 There is a great saying that  " LAUGHTER RELEASES ENDOMORPHINES ''  

 SO  we should always  look after our own life , just imagine floating back into the present and look towards the future  and again fire this feeling all  the way through your future so you start to get more and more  excited  about it and feel really great  about  what lies in store for you ........ remember it vividly  and spin this great feeling inside you . Once you have done this imagine yourself back  above your timeline with this feeling in your possession ..........chuk every thing in your life all those messy relationships , hatraits , jealousy , which were existed in your past and still now moving ahead in your present along with you to your future  , do not let it come into your ways life is beyond things  . Always remember a wonderful time in your life  where you absolutely felt  pleasant ....... The strongest instinct in human beings  is the need to look at the familiar . People are terrified of the unknown . In fact , sometimes people will  rather kill themselves  than look at new things ........

Until you start to look  ahead with desire, it's very hard to get away from the past ................. those bad past or memories will always let u down ..... think beyond and move forward .....

Today when i sit and memories incidents against women the only question which stuck in my mind is
are women really safe  in India? and not only in in India  across the world ?
 the answer which i give to myself is NO ...
 REASON IS : now a days rape has became a common thing for those low esteem people . The act is carried out as a physical force  but in our great country rape is characterised as a sexual offense or offense against the person  after being raped a girl can not even move out of  her house because of those low standard people with cheap mentality.   In our country according to those gossip monger people,  if a girl is wearing a short  dress or hanging late at night  with her friends or boyfriend she is considerd a girl with a negative charector  people will through  negative comments on her now lets take an  example of nirbhaya what was her fault just that she was coming at 9 with her boyfriend after watching  a movie and then she took a wrong bus where she was been gang  raped badly  and thrown naked on the road and why only nirbhaya there are many incidents like this which exsit but donot get coverd question is WHYYYYYY ????????
  Its just that few low esttem uneducated illetrate and fewfools who are very highly educated just want to full fill there sexual need by spoling someones whole life ............... In many parts of the world, rape is very rarely reported, due to the extreme social stigma cast on women who have been raped, or the fear of being disowned by their families,.

what a girl faces after being raped
 1: Disrespect
2:  negative comments
3: alone life no marriage
4 : no society  so onnnnnnnnn
 whyyyyy ??????????????


why she cannot move forward with head up just because of the society and the mentality of people  .....


People who have been raped can be severely terminised and may suffer from stress and disorder

  why she can not have a secure life .......................................the worst part is only few victims come in front That rape is still a dirty secret, hedged about with so much blame and shame that victims feel they cannot come forward, is testament to how far we still have to go .......
 this is a issue which cannot be solved..... because there are such families who donot come up with a bitter truth because of shame  ...................
Part of the problem is the myth that rape is primarily a threat on the streets at night. Far from it. In fact, rape rarely occurs in the proverbial dark alley. The truth is both more banal, and more appalling: two-thirds of victims know their attacker, and assaults commonly take place in the home of either the victim or the rapist ....Too often they are proved right. And if the conspiracy of silence is a problem for women who are raped, it is even worse for men.............
Rape is one of the more appalling things that one human being can do to another, and yet there is no other crime about which our society is so ambivalent. That must change................